In this blog post I explore aspects of anxiety in a deeper way and give you an overview of tips to help your anxious partner and yourself move through this experience just a little bit easier. There’s also a video at the end with more practical tips for communication so please check it out and share the blog and video.
Read MoreThanks to all the therapists from all over the place who contributed to this blog post. We’re exploring coping skills when both partners are out of work, specifically during the coronavirus pandemic. This was a question I received on social media and I feel grateful to have explored it in more detail.
Read More“Why are we snapping at each other and how can we make it stop? This crisis is putting us in crisis, and we’re over it!” I know you’re scared and feeling unnerved about our current and future situation with cover-19. Conflict will increase expectedly over the next few months. Don’t worry, it’s only temporary. Read to learn more about why and watch my in depth video with tips.
Read MoreMantras, Mantras, Mantras…a great way to help you get through tough stuff. Holidays are hard for everyone for many different reasons. Who couldn’t use some additional coping skills for their toolbox?
Read MoreHave you ever heard of infertility counseling? Not many people have. It's something kind of new in terms of therapy, but I've found it to be incredibly effective with people going through infertility. There are so many emotions and symptoms that come in and out during this journey. You deserve support, guidance, and acceptance during this process, and a qualified infertility counselor can provide that.
Read MoreIt's hard to know what will really happen to your relationship after you've had a baby. Conflict increases for practically every couple and most people are shocked by this. They don't know how to handle it and start to stress out, which results in even more fighting. I talk about some things that will happen postbaby, how to move on from conflict, and give you an exercise to see quick improvement in your relationship.
Read MoreDo you feel like fighting is the enemy in your relationship? Are you ready to stop fighting all together? My latest post offers some different ways to think about conflict and why your relationship has gotten to where it is. Don't give up, and never stop fighting for your marriage.
Read MoreYou've probably heard the buzz words "spicing up your marriage." This implies that having a predictable or routine relationship is a negative thing that you need to change by adding spontaneity or new activities. However, research shows that couples are happiest when there is a solid and meaningful friendship. Friendship is built slowly over time through mundane, regular, every day interactions. I'd posit that you can forget about spicing things up, and instead focus on building that rock solid foundation.
Read MoreValentine's Day may be focused on sex, but if you're going through infertility sex is the last thing you want to do on your holiday. In my post, I offer some practical ideas for how to take the pressure off of making V-Day about sex at the end of the evening, and more about the true intention, which is reconnecting with your partner and increasing your intimacy.
Read MoreYou've implemented Elf on the Shelf as part of your kid's holiday traditions, but did you realize it could be helping your relationship too? Rituals are important in any relationship and will help you increase your positive interactions. Find out why this is important here and how to do this all year long.
Read MoreYour partner isn't necessarily doing anything wrong, yet everything he/she is doing is annoying you. You realize that you are about to explode at the next corny joke that comes out of his/her mouth. What can you do to keep your cool and prevent an argument? I provide some easy steps here.
Read MoreDon't just ask for the same old thing or this year's hottest item. Get creative with your holiday wish list and find creative ways to improve your relationship at the same time. It's a win-win. What could be more important than making sure you have a solid foundation and working towards creating the most amazing relationship possible? Read here for some ideas.
Read MoreHave you ever felt like you and your partner were engaged in DEFCON 5 over what new couch to buy? What was that fight really about? And how do you normally argue with your partner? My guess is, it wasn't really about the couch at all.
Read MoreI am so pleased to share my first guest blog post. My peer Maegan Megginson, MA, LPC, LMFT-Associate, is a couple and sex therapist located in central Houston. We all want to have great sex, but why is it so difficult? Maegan provides great information and insight into what may be holding you back.
Read MoreDisney Pixar's newest movie INSIDE OUT helps give parents and children a tangible way to talk about emotions. But emotions are difficult for everyone, especially when they interject into our relationships. Conflict is clouded by uncomfortable and unclear emotions. Read my post to learn how to tackle your relationship conflict using simple lessons from INSIDE OUT.
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