Posts tagged fighting is not the enemy
The Power of Pause: How Taking a Break Can Transform Relationship Conflicts
The Power of Pause: How Taking a Break Can Transform Relationship Conflicts
Couples TherapyErika Labuzan-Lopezcouples therapy exercise, couples therapy expert, couples goals, couples therapy, successful couples therapy, conflict resolution, conflict, overcoming conflict, resolving conflict, dealing with conflict, communication patterns, communication skills, communication, communication tools, breathe, break, take a break, pause, power of pause, time out, take your time, marriage counseling, marriages that stay together, rules for fair fighting, fight for your marriage, fair fighting, fighting is not the enemy, unmet needs, unresolved conflicts, adaptive child, wise adultComment
Why It Will Never Work to Focus on the "Problem of the Week" in Marriage Counseling

I’m continuing to explore the ideas around how relationship clutter is actually getting in your way at the beginning of marriage counseling. Learn the different between first order change (resolutions in the initial problems you’ve come to therapy with) and second order change (the shift in your relationship that heals underlying problems). By getting everything out on the table, your marriage counselor can help you filter through the mess and start working on building skills and focusing on what' really matters. After all, don’t you want an unapologetically amazing marriage? Yeah, me too!

Read More
Couples Therapy, The Therapy ProcessErika Labuzan-Lopezcouples therapy, marriage counseling, marriage during covid 19, fight for your marriage, fighting is not the enemy, first order change, second order change, relationship clutter, relationship problems, relationship enhancement Comments
When You Can't Stop Arguing

Do you feel like fighting is the enemy in your relationship?  Are you ready to stop fighting all together?  My latest post offers some different ways to think about conflict and why your relationship has gotten to where it is.  Don't give up, and never stop fighting for your marriage. 

Read More
Couples TherapyErika Labuzan-Lopezcouples therapy, communication, fighting, conflict, overcoming conflict, talking, fighting is not the enemy, fight for your marriage Comment