Posts tagged how therapy works
Do Couples Therapists Take Sides?

One of the trickiest parts of coming to see a couples therapist is sitting with the idea that sometimes the therapist will take sides, and it may not always be in your favor. But honestly, that’s what you need-someone who will tell you the truth lovingly and in a way that helps your relationship get better. Having a therapist who is neutral all the time is nice, but also makes it hard to make real progress. Read our latest blog post to learn more about why couples therapists take sides at times, and the benefits you’ll receive as a client.

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4 Behaviors that Prevent Divorce - The Antidotes to the Four Horsemen

This week we are continuing our series on effective communication by discussing how to change the four horsemen, those behaviors that are strong predictors of divorce. If we know the behaviors to avoid, we have to do active work to change what we’ve been doing for years. We can’t expect those behaviors to just go away because we now understand how damaging they are; we have to intentionally change them. This blog post explores how to deal with each horseman and ways to go about enhancing your communication skills with your partner.

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4 Reasons the Thought of Going to Therapy is Scary, and 8 Reasons Do It Anyway-Part 1

I hear people tell me all about their fears of going to therapy and reasons why they haven't scheduled that first appointment.  It's normal to be apprehensive about therapy, after all, it's a new experience and you'll be talking to a complete stranger about your secrets.  In part one, I'll be discussing 4 common fears about going to therapy, and briefly introduce the 8 reasons you should do it anyway. 

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